Feeling Sexy During Your Session

I get asked by clients how they can feel sexy on the day of their session when they are a ball of nerves. I’ve had boudoir shoots myself and I totally get this feeling. Even when you feel silly in front of the camera, I can promise you your images are looking pretty sexy from behind the lens! I’ve put together a few of my favorite tips to help you relax and feel the best you can on the day of your shoot. 



One thing that will ensure you have a great time during your session is to plan through everything! From lingerie to your makeup look, I will walk you through all of the options during our consultation. I want you to show up on the day of your session without a question in mind! Planning everything ahead of time will help you feel your best the day of your session. All your worries will be worked out weeks before your shoot. 

Not only should you be planning for your session looks, but be sure to plan out the day of your session. You don’t want to be rushing from one appointment to the next because you may show up a little frazzled. Give yourself some time to really enjoy this moment. 


I know it can be hard to relax when you are really nervous. Take some time the morning of your session to do something just for you. It can be nerve-racking getting almost naked in front of a camera. I promise I am going to take good care of you! I have been doing this for years and have photographed countless women and women. You are in good hands! Before your session starts, we will take a few minutes to chat and you will be able to drink some champagne if you want. 

Be Yourself

When you are choosing lingerie and accessories, make sure you are choosing items that are truly you. You won’t feel your best self if you are only wearing items to please others. You are beautiful in whatever you wear and whatever accessories or props you choose. The shoot is ultimately all about you and I want you to be happy with everything that you bring in. 

Have Fun

Focus on having fun during your session! It’s just me and you during your shoot. My goal is to get great shots of you so there is no reason for you to stress about that. If you have never done anything like this before, do not worry! I will guide you through every pose so all you need to do is relax, breathe and have fun! From getting pampered to having a glass of champagne, it’s the perfect opportunity to have a day all about you!